Supportive reading
Setting boundaries around other people’s questions
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Even a well-meant question can feel heavy. You can decide how much to share.

Prepare a short answer
“We are keeping this private for now” or “We will share news when we want to” may be enough. You do not have to explain every detail or defend your decision.
Say what kind of support you need
You may want listening rather than advice, fewer repeated questions or a break from a gathering. A boundary can make room for you without ending a relationship.